I love to cook and am always aiming to make very healthy and delicious meals. I love making ethnic dishes with a vegan twist, and my boyfriend is a very willing guinea pig for new recipes. And what's more, he loves all the food I make and sometimes will accuse me of trying to "turn him" with such yummy food =)
I'm not a fan of baked goods, so my knowledge of sugar and flour is pretty limited.
My favorite cookbook (which I believe *everyone* should own, regardless if they're vegan or not) is Deborah Madison's Vegetarian Cooking for Everyone. It's so thorough. My boyfriend bought me a book called 500 Vegan Recipes for Christmas, but Deborah's book still trumps it (plus, half of that book is for things I would never make anyway, like baked goods....)
And as far as Lolita goes, I make my own clothing, though I do have a few Body Line pieces. I also have an Etsy shop (same username as here) and work on commission too =)